Well, being in love isn’t always easy. However, am still confused which one is easier – falling in love, falling out of love or, after facing both the situations, then again trying to understand the meaning of love from scratch. One word would surely define this stage – it’s “COMPLICATED”. The word ‘love’ is very closely associated with another tiny term which has a mammoth meaning – “LIFE”. The myth that whatever happens, happens for the best has been refuted long back. All of us know, and would agree, that life isn’t a bed of roses and I bet it hasn’t been that way for many. Fighting your way through and holding onto a situation till your last breath proves how strong you are in your survival strategy, as everyone is aware of the fact that the strongest and the fittest only can survive. But don’t you think that even the fittest and the strongest tends to falter when it comes down to lost love or breakups? These are terms that can rip a person’s life apart, on one hand, and can even change the meaning and approach of a person’s life in the positive direction on the other hand.
The cycle of life, love and breakup continues unendingly. The best part comes in when you leave all hopes of falling in love again and are ready to give up the desire of letting any new person enter your life, you find someone unexpectedly coming so close to your heart that you don’t even realise that when again and how, have you been swept off your feet and been taken into one of those bumpy rides into the path of love. Rationality might give you the warning signal during these times, but I strongly feel that during these stages our hearts grow a mind of their own and they decide to take the risk of experiencing love again. However, the conflict that develops between the heart and the mind during this issue is a huge and massive one. It’s like the clash of the titans and the poor guy or the girl, who is facing these inner turbulences of the heart and the mind, remains at a loss, not knowing how to handle the situation and make life simpler and easier.
Things cannot always be set right but one should take such situations in one’s stride and should try to see a little sense into such sensitive issues. Do all it takes to come back to life again…Do all it takes to love life again…Do all it takes to love thy self again. You are special and do not deserve to waste time pondering over the issue. Promise yourself to stay happy, enjoy the day and sleep peacefully at night…Go out and catch your friends you haven’t met in a long time; they are the ones who’ll help you out !
Share your dilemmas, it’ll reduce the anxiety and the pain attached. Eat good and drink better. Don’t drown yourself into the sorrow of alcohol, instead try my favourite “Double shot cappuccino” (wink) – it helped when I had a rough patch in my life…that froth, that cream, and the cookie along did spread the required fun and frolic in my life… It’s a first hand experience that I am sharing people and it works !
Life is a huge canvas, keep on splashing the colours of emotions on it, for emotions makes us human…and, I am sure the outcome of the portrayal of life will be beautiful and breathtaking for all of us.