Married for a year, 2 years, 3 years, 4 years and no kids? Oops, How come? The societal pressures, the parental pressures, the age pressures- all are fine but then who’s decision is it to decide on the subject and have the last word- YOURS!
So, whatever people think, say and not say, here are 10 things married women without kids hear the most:
1. You guys are not planning right now?
How does it matter to you? Will you take care of the kids? And once we do plan, it will show right away. There is no way on this planet it can be hidden…think!
2. Is there a problem?
Even if there is, I will not tell you. You are not my best friend or best cousin or best aunt or best anyone.
3. Age has its side effects
Yes and your nagging has too- big time!
4. The sooner the better
Why? I’m not going anywhere or leaving my partner. I can take my time.
5. Two kids are a must
Can we take it step by step?
6. There will be a huge age gap between you and the kids.
Yes, I know. It’s the same with you. It will anyways be. A year here or there or two here or there or 3 here or there doesn’t matter.
7. Learn from my experience
You want to hear the truth- I don’t want to be a loser like you.
8. Kids bind a relationship
A relationship has to have it’s own strength. People who use kids as a medium to bind a relationship can take a walk.
9. Having a kid is the most precious experience in life.
Yes, agreed! We are not averse to kids, just not right now.
10. It completes you.
First marriage was required to complete me and now kids. What will be tomorrow?
Is there something else that you hear the most? Do drop it in the comments below. Let’s have a laugh together. And don’t forget to share this with friends and family in similar situations. They deserve a laugh too!
Also, Do read: Don’t marry a girl who cooks.